Don’t Break a Heart… | ||
Has anyone ever broken your dear heart? I do hope you have not experienced this feeling in your life so far, yet I am afraid that sooner or later you will have to challenge with such a bitter feeling over and over in life. Obviously not everyone is caring enough and there are some people who unfortunately don’t care for how others could possibly feel as a result of their attitude, behavior or words. Let’s just hope they don’t try to hurt you on purpose… But let’s be honest, we get to be heartbroken for several reasons in life and I might surprise you by saying that we are most often hurt by our best friends, close relatives and the people we most treasure in life. Let’s just call it one of life’s surprises before we are terribly surprised by it. I don’t have any convincing explanation for this issue, but it seems that we are careless about our parents, friends and most close relatives because we are somehow certain that they are always there for us no matter what. But in truth, this is not just fair or right in any sense and aspect. Our parents, sisters and brothers, closest friends and relatives often tolerate us too generously and even try to pretend they are not hurt at all, which makes a bad word or behavior more shameful too. Once you get to think deeply about breaking a heart, you will be more cautious and careful and feel better for caring for your loved ones. But what happens when someone breaks your heart, and by someone I mean someone close, whom you really love and never expect to do such a thing? As a matter of fact, a high portion of this feeling- broken heartgoes back to being sensitive towards that particular person whom you care for each word they utter and every act they appear to do. I have come to a conclusion for myself, which is, what if at that particular moment they don’t even know they are breaking a heart and hurting your dear feelings? What if all along they have not even discovered how much you have been upset and offended by their words, acts and behaviors? Or let’s just put it in another way, maybe for one reason or another, they just mean to attract your attention and need you to care for them so intensely that they have lost their path and have no clue how to reach out to you? I mean, in this situation just about anything is possible and since we might never know the truth about how they feel, their intention and what is going on with them in life at that stage, then how can we truly and fairly interpret their act and be so upset and hurt? I know this might seem too optimistic, but yet again, do we really have any other choice? And is there anything we can do to lessen our own hurt and broken heart? In the best circumstance, you might find an opportunity to encounter that person and ask them about the issue and what they really meant, but this rarely becomes the case. So, be creative and think positive in order to heal yourself, while all along sincerely pray for that person with a forgivingly generous heart…. | ||
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